In all seriousness, I’m considering not even having a wedding at all. I think I’d rather get married in the court house and have the few people that I am close to, be there to witness it. I would wear a simple white dress and he’d wear a nice suit, and my friends dressed up as well. It would still have the traditional stuff in it, but just simple. And then after that we can all go to dinner. I want a marriage, not a wedding. I want someone to spend the rest of my life with, who is committed to me as much as I am to him.
I don’t see what the big deal is in having a huge magnificent wedding day anyway. I mean sure, it’s a day to celebrate a couple and the new journey they are about to begin, but why make it so extravagant? Why does it have to cost so much money that you don’t have to begin with anyway? I would rather have a few close friends with my new husband and his as well, and have something deep and, to me at least, a little more meaningful. An intense gathering. It’d be nice.